Since January 2019, True Lawyers has been contributing regularly to Amigoe, a Dutch-language newspaper based in Curaçao, aimed at readers in Curaçao, Sint Maarten, the Caribbean Netherlands, and Aruba. This regular column highlights a topic within personal and family law, with the aim of providing readers with accessible insight into this area of law.
Issues of authority
If you are entrusted with parental authority over a minor (or minors), you not only have the right but also the duty to raise and care for them. While raising children goes smoothly in many
Spousal support
For learning and amusement, I enrolled some time ago in a course on Personal and Family Law at the Faculty of Law of the University of Curaçao. A few weeks later, I found myself in
Child support
Although a divorce at the hairdresser is the cheapest, I am regularly approached with requests for legal assistance in divorce cases and questions about alimony. A divorce is finalized through a court order and is
Divorce
Before bedtime, I like to read the children fairy tales filled with magic. These centuries-old folk stories often end with the well-known phrase “and they lived happily ever after.” That a long and happy life
Paying child support? Tighten your belt!
Some time ago, I handled a case in which the opposing party—the father, using the fictitious name Matteo—did everything he could to avoid his payment obligations. This was despite the fact that, under the law,
Interaction during Covid-19
After the end of a relationship between the parents, the child has the right to maintain contact with both parents. This applies both to the parent with parental authority and to the parent without it.
Spousal support issues
Spousal maintenance is intended to protect spouses from financial hardship after a divorce. As long as the parties agree, they can make any arrangements they wish regarding spousal maintenance. In such cases, the law can
Permission to travel abroad
This month marks four years since I opened the doors of my own law firm, according to a notification from the social media platform LinkedIn. Without that notification, this milestone would undoubtedly have passed me
The divorce
Did you know in which ways a marriage can end? Marriage ends by (i) death, or (ii) if a missing person who is presumed dead or has been declared deceased is still alive on the
Parenting plan
Relieved, my client takes a deep breath. We stare at a statement of proceedings indicating that the parties have reached an agreement to end the case in accordance with the attached parenting plan, that the
The joint divorce petition
Just over a year ago, I decided to focus my attention—and thus my practice—primarily on matters involving personal and family law. Since then, I’ve been saying “no” more often when approached with cases from other
Authority
To request an extract from the Guardianship Register, an application form must be completed and submitted to the registry of the Court of First Instance, where a public register is maintained by the clerk in
Parental authority
A long time ago, sometime in the first half of the 1990s, I lived in Amsterdam with my parents. After an adventurous vacation on my birth island, my parents decided that they wanted to remigrate
Change of first name or surname
Within five days after the birth of our youngest little one, we recently went to the lively Otrobanda where Public Affairs (‘Kranshi’) is located. You can probably guess what we had to do—we had to
Substitute consent for recognition
Fathers who wish to acknowledge their child(ren) come in all shapes and sizes. There are fathers who contribute monthly to the costs of raising and caring for their child(ren) while barely seeing them, if at
Child abduction
Although child abduction cases are generally intense and far-reaching, the most recent international abduction case I handled fortunately ended with a whimper rather than a bang. In that case, a man and a woman were
Fate after divorce
When spouses separate through divorce, the court may determine partner alimony in its decision or in a subsequent ruling. The court generally orders the spouse with the greater financial capacity to pay partner alimony to
Traveling with minors
Under the law, a minor (a person who has not yet reached the age of eighteen) may not travel without the consent of his or her legal representative(s). If the minor has not been legally
What goes around comes around
Recently, I worked together with a lawyer who is not registered with the Joint Court of Justice of Aruba, Curaçao, Sint Maarten, and of Bonaire, Sint Eustatius, and Saba. I acted as the ‘local’ authorized
Moving issues
Living on a tropical island is a conscious choice for an increasing number of people. After making the big move, some conclude that island life is everything they hoped for—and more. While for some the
First aid for divorces
Most marriages experience a difficult period sooner or later, during which the sense of connection diminishes. Sometimes differences of opinion turn into arguments that last longer and longer, and at a certain point it becomes
The rhythm and cadence of copyright
On 21 June of this year, the judge of the Court of First Instance rendered a judgment in summary proceedings in the case brought by the well-known Curaçaoan baseball player Kenley Jansen (owner of the

